On Sunday, October 28th, 2007, we got married at Three Ponds Park in Peachtree City, GA.
The Ceremony, by Alex Knudsen; The vows, by Bob and Crystal:
Alec:
Honored Guests, Friends, Family: We gather together in this place, at this time, to celebrate the joining of two souls. Two hearts. Two lives. To celebrate family, old and new. To celebrate friends yet met, and friendship eternal. Above all else this day, we gather to celebrate love. Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whatsoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well. All of us gathered today know love, for love is what has brought us together. If you do not know love, then look to Crystal and Robert, for they know love. Love is patient and kind; Love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. So faith, hope, love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
Elise, standing with Bob, and Julie, standing with Crystal, took the rings off of Tigger's (the flower girl/ring bearer) collar. Elise gave Crystal's ring to Bob and Julie gave Bob's ring to Crystal.
Alec:
Through ages past the ring has been a symbol of purity and strength. Of hope and of Love. Devotion and Unity. Now, as in times past, it symbolizes the new life that is about to begin.
Robert, repeat after me:
I, Robert Warren, take you, Crystal Hobza, to be my Wife, as my friend and my love, beside me and apart from me, in laughter and in tears, in conflict and tranquility. On this special day, I promise to love you without reservation, I will honor and respect you, protect you from harm, comfort you in times of distress, grow with you in mind and spirit, and I will always be open and honest with you. I do swear to love and honor you until the day the starts fall from the sky, the world ends, or death takes us.
Bob placed the ring on Crystal's finger and said:
Crystal, May this ring forever be a symbol of my vow that I will honor and love you with all that I am, all that I have, with all my heart.
Alec:
Crystal, do you accept this ring and all that it stands for? Accepting Robert as your friend, your companion, your husband?
Crystal:
I do.
Alec:
Crystal, repeat after me:
I, Crystal Hobza, take you, Robert Warren, to be my Husband, as my friend and my love, beside me and apart from me, in laughter and in tears, in conflict and tranquility. On this special day, I promise to love you without reservation, I will honor and respect you, protect you from harm, comfort you in times of distress, grow with you in mind and spirit, and I will always be open and honest with you. I do swear to love and honor you until the day the starts fall from the sky, the world ends, or death takes us.
Crystal placed the ring on Bob's finger and said:
Robert, May this ring forever be a symbol of my vow that I will honor and love you with all that I am, all that I have, with all my heart.
Alec:
Robert, do you accept this ring and all that it stands for? Accepting Crystal as your friend, your companion, your wife?
Robert:
I do.
Alec:
Now you are joined as husband and wife.
At this point, Crystal interjected:
Before the ceremony, each of you were given a ribbon and asked to write a one-word "prayer" or "blessing" on it. We ask that you now come up one at a time and tie these ribbons to our joined wrists. This is where the term "tying the knot" comes from. We will take these blessings and hang them above our bed as a constant reminder of your love and friendship for us.
Each person at the wedding came forth and tied their ribbon to our joined wrists.
Alec:
Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter to the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other. Now there is no more loneliness, for each of you will be companion to the other. Now you are two bodies, but there is only one life before you.
You may kiss.
Go now to your dwelling place. To enter into the days of your togetherness. And may your days be good and long upon the earth.
Ladies and Gentlemen, May I present Mr. and Mrs. Warren.
Here are the pics...
Our friend Alec did the ceremony for us. Here he is chillin with Bob before the wedding.
Elise and Bob. (Elise is Bob's daughter)
Elise with her mom, Kaci, and step-dad, Ken
Mom walking with me. Grandma Dille is right behind mom.
Tigger was the flower girl/ring bearer.
Mom walking me down the aisle
Elise, Bob, and Alec
The wedding party, Elise, Bob, Alec, Crystal, Tigger, and Julie
Tigger was such a good girl!
Elise and Julie getting the rings off Tigger's collar.
I, Robert, take you, Crystal
I, Crystal, take you, Robert
Whew, we both do!!!
We had everyone write a one word "blessing" or "prayer" (like love, happiness, health, kindness, etc.) on a ribbon. During this part we had each of them come up and tie them to our joined hands. Once everyone had tied them onto us, we tied them all together with a bigger ribbon and we put them on our headboard. Here are the pics of the blessings:
Blessings from Lea
Blessings from Eeyore and CJ (CJ was taking the pictures, he did an awesome job!)
Blessing from Robin
Blessings from Lynsey
Blessings from Martha
Blessings from Kaci
Blessings from Ken
Blessings from Julie
I now pronounce you man and wife
You may kiss the bride
Oh look, bubbles...
A gift from the new step-mom to her new step-daughter
She loved it
An emotional moment
Pretty cake with burgundy flowers with sage green leaves
another pic of the cake with the wishing well and pond behind it
The food
Crystal and Bob cut the cake
Still cutting
Still...
Feeding each other... we were so nice, no mess.
Crystal's bouquet and the Blessing Ribbons